Celebrating Black History & Black Love

It’s all fair in love and war! For the month of February Just One Hot Mom has been featuring #blackhistory #blacklove.  Sit back relax and enjoy quotes and photos from some of my favorite couples.

4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.8Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 1 Cor. 4-8, The Stealey’s

Drew & Boo I give all the glory to God. It’s kind of a win-win situation. The glory goes up to Him and the blessings fall down on me. ~ Gabby Douglas via Drew Harris


Minor'sLove, Trust, Loyalty and Communication =EVERLASTING LOVE~ Natasha Minor


BumpersMarriage is a team sport… I am only as strong as you are weak! We play to win; we play for keeps!- The Bumper’s

JanontiaSometimes you have to go through some things before you find that one that appreciates all the things that you do. When you find them, hold on to them.” We have a bond like no other. Communication is big for us. We talk about EVERYTHING. With that comes trust & everything else just falls into place. ~ Ja’Nontia

Smith'sBeing faithful to God, togetherness, open communication, loving each other every day. WE are one unit and there is no separation between this unit. The Smith’s

Craig'sTrue love is God’s love. It is black love; it is white love and the true love of every color. It is the love we ought to show to ourselves and the love we show to others. God’s love never fails.~ The Craig’s

Godbott'sFriends Forever…Lovers for Eternity- The Godbott’s

Dickson'sI love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you simply, without problems or pride: I love you in this way because I do not know any other way of loving but this, in which there is no I or you, so intimate that your hand upon my chest is my hand, so intimate then when I fall asleep your eyes close.” – Pablo Neruda via The Dickson’s

White'sTongue and teeth can fall out BUT they need each other to operate.- The White’s

Watts'My peace in a world of war~ Lynn Watts

Carroll'sIf you know me loving me has to be one of the hardest things to do, but this man has found a way to do it for 21 years. If I told you that every day was easy and that we’ve never seen days that we didn’t think we would make it I would be telling a lie! Has he broken my heart a time or two yes, as I have his. But in the end we both acknowledged it and realized we would be losing more by giving up, and allowing the enemy to win! We both know that he is mine and I am his and no one will ever love us as we love each other. My husband is my best friend, my confidant, my provider and my lover! I would climb the highest mountain and Swim the deepest oceans for this man, would walk across the desert just to get to him, there isn’t anything in this world that I wouldn’t do to keep a smile on this man’s face…I love him in place where space and time doesn’t exist!! Veronica Carroll

Ford's John & Shonteea Ford. 10 years of marriage on 8/05/16. “When your mate is the first person in your prayers, the first person you share good and bad news with, the first person you think of as your best friend is the key to knowing that your marriage has the foundation to last the test of time.- The Ford’s

LoveCuz mami’s a rider, and I’m a roller, put us together, how they gon’ stop both us? Whatever she lacks, I’m right over her shoulder, when I’m off track mami is keepin me focused, so let’s, lock this down like it’s supposed to be the ’03 Bonnie and Clyde, Hov’ and B~ Jay-Z via One Handsome Dad & Just One Hot Mom


Mommy You Need A Makeover

So, my children and I have very different taste when it comes to how we all dress. I always ask their opinion before I head out to events and sometimes they score high with their observations and others not so much.  So far Valentine’s Day, we decided to challenge each other and see who could give mom a Valentine’s Day look that would WOW us all.  See below.  The final look will be revealed on Instagram: @justonehotmom, Facebook:  Just One Hot Mom and Twitter:  @just1hotmom on Valentine’s Day!


Hot Mom, Hot Topics: 20 Things Singles Don’t Want to Hear on Valentine’s Day & The Response You May Receive

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  1. You’ll find someone someday.
    (response: Don’t you think I already know that!)
  2. Mr./Mrs. Right is being prepped for you.
    (response: Well make sure they’re well done this time)
  3. I’ve got just the right person for you, my niece/nephew is single too.
    (response: Does my shirt say desperately seeking?!)
  4. When are you getting married?
    (response: If I knew that, I would have sent out “Save the dates” by now to avoid you asking this question, again!)
  5. Whatever happened to so and so?
    (response: If you don’t see them around then apparently we ain’t together!)
  6. You’re not getting any younger!
    (response:**ding, ding** You are correct! I don’t suffer from that Benjamin Button disease)
  7. You can always get a pet.
    (response: Well just go ahead put me in the housecoat, slippers, cigarettes, bonnet and deem me that cat lady)
  8. I pray you find someone soon.
    (response: While you’re praying, please ask for deliverance from put foot in mouth disease!)
  9. Have you tried online dating?
    (response: No, but thanks grandma for creating that profile and stressing that I am in desperate need!)
  10. Maybe you should fix yourself up.
    (response: So, you think I’m trying to fix myself down?!)
  11. You’ll find someone when you least expect it.
    (response: Well hopefully I’m fixed up by then! (reference #10))
  12. Your standards are too high.
    (response: So you’re saying I should take practices personal hygiene off the table?!)
  13. Hopefully we’ll be planning your wedding soon.
    (response: And your funeral next!)
  14. As a virgo you should really be looking for a cancer as a match?
    (response: And in what bible did you find this compatibility chart?!)
  15. There’s someone out there for everyone.
    (response: Apparently so, someone found you.)
  16. If all else fails, at least you have family.
    (response: Well, damn that is a depressing thought!)
  17. What happened to (insert ex’s name here), I mean he/she left you in debt but he/she had some pretty teeth?
    (response: Well there you have it, hopefully great dental hygiene will pay our mortgage someday.)
  18. Remember when you were 10 years old and you and (insert childhood friend’s name here) said you were going to get married, what happened?
    (response: We did this thing called “GROW UP”)
  19. Back in high school everybody thought you would be the first to get married. (response: Back in high school I had no standards!)
  20. You just need to put yourself out there.
    (response: So, mom, you hanging that desperately seeking a date for my son/daughter sign ain’t getting the response you expected, huh?!)

    Just kidding! It’s all in fun and sarcasm.  Have a Happy Valentine’s Day!