Here are a few sites that help you figure out ways to encourage others:
http://thelife.com/challenges/19-ways-to-encourage-others
(#2 I’ll text you in a heartbeat, #9 I love a party and what better reason than to celebrate each other, #12 If I can make it, I’m there, and #19 I’m working on becoming better at this.)
http://rachelwojo.com/things-to-say-to-encourage-a-friend/
(don’t be surprised if you hear me use #2, 5, 7, 11, 13, 14, 16, 19, 20(20 is my favorite))
http://liveboldandbloom.com/07/quotes/words-of-encouragement
(and if all else fails, people smarter than I have said great things, personal # 1, 3, 7, 10, 14, 29(this has to be my favorite on this list), 48)